I have experienced miscarriage, the death of my youngest sister to suicide, the death of another sister to cancer, death of yet another sister from a broken heart. My father passed away from a stroke, but I must say he lived a good, long life of 91 years. I lost a niece at a young age. I have lost really, really good friends and neighbors. My custom built home of only five years burned to the ground and we lost almost everything. Currently, my husband is healing from aggressive bladder cancer. Healing is the word I concentrate on.